Monday, September 26, 2011

Sept 25, 2011 - 26th Sun of OT - Seeing Others as God Sees Them

Readings - http://www.usccb.org/bible/readings/092511.cfm

Each Sunday during Ordinary Time the Readings offer us an opportunity to reflect on some aspect of our daily lives.  Today, it would seem to be how we relate to those around us.  Do we see them as Children of God worthy of love, or do we focus on their flaws?

I say this because in the Gospel Reading, Jesus was responding to a common charge leveled against his disciples by others who probably should have known better.  Jesus’ disciples were being accused by the priests, elders and scribes of their time to be “a bunch of tax collectors and prostitutes.”

So let’s ask ourselves, how many of the first apostles actually were tax collectors?  One, Matthew, who _himself_ calls himself a former tax collector.  The others were simple – four fisherman, a zealot (local “PLO guy” basically) a bunch of others of non-descript occupations – but _not_ the worst possible of sinners (collaborators with the Romans).

And then how many of the women around Jesus were actually prostitutes?  Possibly one, the future St. Mary Magdalene.  And even then there’s some question there.  Da Vinci Code aside, it is clear that St. Mary Magdalene was an important figure in the early Church.  In the Gospels, she is the first person to see Jesus after his Resurrection.  Perhaps out of jealousy, this particular aspect of her past was raised-up against her and it did stick.  Was it true that she was a Prostitute.  At this point we can not know.  What we do know is that even if she had been, she had changed.  And there would be some reason to believe that perhaps this aspect of her life before meeting Jesus was exaggerated to hurt her, indeed, supporting my point.

The “tax collector and prostitute” reputation of Jesus’ followers was being exaggerated by opponents of Jesus and the early Church to hurt them.  One tax collector and one possible prostitute does not “a den of tax collectors and prostitutes” make.  But no matter, that’s what they were accused of.

This then comes to our present day, and effects all kinds of relations, from home, to parish, to community to even Ecumenism.

I remember that when I was in Rome during my years in the seminary, the Professor teaching our Course in Ecumenism, a teacher who was in fact a leading functionary at the Vatican on the question of Ecumenism, pointed out to us that doctrinally speaking, we are really close to the Orthodox Christians.  The only matter in which we really differ is in the our understandings of the authority of the Pope.  We say that when push comes to shove, the Pope can speak on his own for the whole Church.  The Orthodox maintain that while he is the “first among equals” he must speak in concert with the other bishops (patriarchs).  But when it comes to the Sacraments, Mary, morals, etc, we hold the same doctrinal views.  Yet, my Professor noted we do almost nothing together.


And separately, I do remember finding myself a few years back in an argument with a Serbian Orthodox Christian my age over the question of why U.S. Catholic Relief Services was doing relief work in Bosnia.  I told her that I get the history the Balkans, but that certainly U.S. Catholic Relief Services were out there in Bosnia simply to help, that American Catholics generally aren’t out to convert anybody (true almost to a fault), and that actually the bigger problem with Americans is that most probably wouldn’t know where Bosnia is.  But to her it was an affront for Catholic Relief Services to be out there feeding hungry people, including hungry Serbs...

Now my Professor contrasted that with our relations with the Protestant faiths, saying that there are all kinds of doctrinal issues with the Protestants but that all over the Western world and especially in the English speaking countries, Protestants and Catholics (even the most radical of Protestants, like the Baptists or Pentacostalists) naturally work together to feed the hungry, clothe the naked, provide basic services to the poor.  And he made it a point that this kind of PRACTICAL ECUMENISM needs to be given its proper recognition as well.

But this cooperation extends even beyond the Christian denominations.  Every 3-4 months, a Moslem group now feeds the homeless at the Soup Kitchen at our Sister Parish of Our Lady of Sorrows.  Why?  Well partly because thanks to the legacy of slavery (white Christians enslaving blacks many of whom were actually originally muslims or lands that have become muslim since) a not insignificant portion of the African American population is muslim.  And if knows a little about Islam then one would know that there are basically two commandments that moslems are to follow – (1) pray and (2) give alms, feed the poor.  Just because someone is wearing a head scarf ought not to disqualify them from helping us help the poor.

I just happen to note this case at Our Lady of Sorrows where the local muslim community periodically helps us help the poor, but if one were to go north, into the more Jewish communities of Skokie and so forth, similar cooperation takes place among the Christian and Jewish communities there as well.

We can choose to look for reasons to not like each other, or we choose to work together for the benefit of all, and then especially of those in need.

But then, let’s go back home to our own lives...

I am absolutely positive that if we don’t like someone, we can find all kinds of reasons to not like them, and some could even be rather solemn sounding / impressive.  That’s easy.

But we should really ask ourselves:

(1) Is this negative opinion that we have of someone even true (or even largely true)?  Nobody is simply the sum of their flaws.  (Even John Wayne Gacy, probably wrote a number of very nice Mother’s Day cards when he was a child.  And probably some aunt somewhere probably remembered him fondly).  God who sees all, sees those good aspects of others as well (and therefore sees the good aspects in ourselves as well).

and (2) even if it is true, that someone is horribly flawed in some way, what good is it really to dwell on it?  Because either the person is quite aware of his/her flaws and is trying actually quite hard to deal with them, or the person is in great denial and is happily pursuing the positive aspects of his/her life, and chances are is probably doing both, dealing with his/her flaws and trying really hard to utilize the positive aspects of his/her life as well.

If we dwell on the negative in others, it brings us down, makes us less likable and almost certainly results in others judging us as harshly as we judge them.

In contrast, we all have the ability to choose to be positive, to try to see the good in people, that which they can offer to others.

Because honestly folks, life is hard enough as it is.  We really can’t afford to throw people under the bus.  Those people we dismiss or put-down are people who have gifts that could help raise us all up. 

But it’s really our choice, we can choose to complain, to put people down and even accuse God of being unfair as we hear in Ezekiel. (Ezekiel reminds the people that it’s actually they who are being unfair because they choose not to see the repentance that God sees). 

Or we can choose to try each other like God sees us.  After all, we’re reminded in that second reading that Jesus didn’t come and die just for the “good people.”  Jesus came and died for everybody, because every one of us is child of God worth saving.

Can we try to start seeing others in the same way?

Sunday, September 4, 2011

Sept 4, 2011 - 23rd Sun of OT - Of Working Together / Back to Work Concerns

Readings - http://www.usccb.org/bible/readings/090411.cfm

We find ourselves at the beginning of September.  In the United States we celebrate Labor Day this weekend and this weekend has traditionally come to mark the end of the Summer for us here.

And the Readings that we hear today can help us to reorient ourselves from the summer which is generally a time of rest and relaxation, to the fall, which to most of us means “back to work,” “back to school,” “back to real life.” 

In the life of a parish, “back to work,” “back to real life” means back to “a lot of meetings.”  And with meetings come inevitable conflicts.

So the Gospel Reading offers a gentle suggestion of how to deal with a ‘brother’ causing problems.  We’re advised not to embarrass the brother, to try to turn him back gently, privately.  If that doesn’t work then to call in a few witnesses, to document the case.  If that doesn’t work to bring the matter up to the whole Church/community.  And finally if that doesn’t work to simply consider the person someone outside the community from then on (as a pagan or tax collector ...).

But the Gospel Reading does not stop there.  Nor is it the only the only Reading that we hear today.

We are reminded by the rest of the Gospel Reading (and then by the other two readings, the first and especially the second from St. Paul) that the purpose of such correction is _not_ to prove our superiority over that person but (1) to literally save that person’s life (the first reading from Ezekiel) and (2) to recognize that we are a community of love (the second reading from St. Paul).

Indeed, we are reminded at the end of the Gospel Reading that when 2-3 are gathered in Jesus’ name that Jesus is present and that whenever 2-3 together ask God for anything that it will be granted them.

So the reprimand of the wayward brother (or sister) is _not_ to look for pretexts to expel him/her, so that we could “be right” (or perhaps to get a “better position” in the Church, or even society).  It’s only to remind us that we really are “in this together,” and are being asked to work as brothers and sisters toward a common goal – heaven, the Kingdom of God – and yes, one’s selfishness, egotism, or problematics, can distract, derail us from this goal.

But let’s be clear, we need everybody.  Even the person expelled from the community is, in fact, to be missed.  His/her absence does (and, in fact, by definition) diminish the whole.   And indeed, even if we often focus on _the problems_ that someone may pose us, _all of us_ are more than just a summation of our sins or failings. 

So conflicts do diminish us.  They diminish the life of families, they diminish life of communities, they diminish life in parishes.
 
So then, as we approach a new beginning of the “busy time of the year,” let us take this time to seek to put aside the temptation to be “petty” and seek to work for the benefit of all, for the benefit of the parish and indeed the for the benefit of the Kingdom of God.

(And if we reflect on this, it ought to be clear, that this working toward a common purpose has been, in fact, largely the goal of the labor movement that we remember in this country during this weekend as well).

So God bless you all, and may we work together to make this a better parish, better community and better world in the year to come.

Aug 28, 2011 - 22nd Sun of OT - God’s Promise in Good Times / Bad

Readings - http://www.usccb.org/bible/readings/082811.cfm

We are coming to the end of a summer that hopefully was a time of rest and refreshment.  During this time, we’ve been fed here each Sunday by a nice set of Readings that gently invited us to reflect on some of Jesus’ parables, some of Jesus’ most famous miracles and finally on two professions of faith of people living in Jesus’ time, the first a simple Canaanite woman (who wasn’t even expected to have faith in Jesus) and the second being of St. Peter, a profession of faith for which Jesus blesses him and promises to build his Church upon him.

Today the Readings become rapidly much bleaker.  And they perhaps remind us why it is important to have times of rest and refreshment in our lives, and why it is perhaps important for us to gently learn our faith in those times, because not all life will be easy.

Immediately after St. Peter’s profession and Jesus’ blessing of him for having made it, Jesus tells his disciples that they are going to head to Jerusalem, that he, Jesus will be arrested there by the chief priests and scribes and he will killed (but that this will not be the end, that “after three days, he will raised”). 

St. Peter’s head spinning from first the blessing that he received and then from Jesus’ subsequent words tries to tell Jesus “don’t talk like that.”

Jesus instead reprimands the future St. Peter for trying to dissuade him telling the truth (even if it seems like hard/bad news).  And then reminds everyone no one is ‘fit to be a disciple of his unless they are willing to take up their cross and follow him.’

Wonderful.  What to make of this?

Well it strikes at the heart of Jesus’ mission.  If life were always okay, if there was no suffering that we experienced in this world, then there’d be no reason for Jesus to come.  He came precisely because all of us will experience pain, difficulty, betrayal, and yes, death, during the course of our lives.

So the Cross will be part of our lives whether we like it or not.

Hopefully though there will also be times like this summer (or other summers) that will be times of gentleness and rest for us, in which we can reflect on our relationship with God without great stress and thus be ready when the hard times come.

I also know very well, that for some here, this summer has been _really difficult_, despite the gentleness of the Readings heard here during this time.  We all walk together but we’re all also on our own paths, and God comes to us with various challenges at various times.  So yes, every year some of us are presented with challenges that others may not face for a while (or may have faced some years before).

Still hopefully all of us will have had times of tranquility in our lives (and perhaps _come to appreciate_ those times of tranquility when they are with us) because these times can help us have strength to meet the challenges, the difficulties, the Crosses that will inevitably come our way.

So as we approach the end of this summer, for those of us form whom this summer was peaceful and gentle let us give thanks for that.  Let us then pray for those for whom this time has _not_ been so gentle or has really been a time of great difficulty.  And finally let us give thanks to a God who came to us precisely to give us strength for the times of difficulty in our lives.

Aug 21, 2011 - 21st Sun of OT - “Who do we say Jesus is?”

Readings - http://www.usccb.org/bible/readings/082111.cfm

We are coming to the end of a summer where we have been treated by a series of remarkable Gospel Readings in which we were first treated to Jesus’ manner of teaching by a series of simple/gentle pastoral parables, then to a couple of Jesus’ best known miracle stories – the multiplication of the loaves and Jesus walking on the water.  And we’re approaching an “end of the summer” decision time.  In today’s Gospel Jesus asks his disciples, who would have seen and heard all of this “Who do you say that I am?”

Note though that already last week, we heard a Canaanite woman profess her faith in Jesus.  So Peter’s profession of faith would not have been the first, though it would, of course, be very important.

My sense is that the Gospel writers’ (in this case Matthew) placed the Profession of Faith of the Canaanite woman before that of St. Peter’s to keep us all off balance and humble.  Indeed, it is a recurrent theme throughout the Gospels that those who should have known better did not, and those who were at the edges, who no one expected anything of, or even considered worth consideration were the one’s who understood Jesus and the promise of his Gospel the best.

So the Canaanite woman, three times marginalized – a woman, a Canaanite and non-Jewish – beats the apostles to the punch in proclaiming her faith in Jesus and bestowing on him the messianic title “Son of David.”

Today we hear Jesus asking his disciples first “Who do people say that I am?” and then, more pointedly, “Who do _you_ say that I am?”

And the person who speaks up is the future St. Peter. 

Now Simon Peter is an interesting choice as well.  There were probably smarter Apostles (Judas is said to have “kept the books” for Jesus and the apostles).  There were probably richer Apostles (James and John, the sons of Zebedee who seemed to be important as well as Matthew himself, who presents himself in this Gospel as having been a tax collector).  Instead it is Simon (Peter) who speaks up.

And Jesus blesses him for this, saying that “[Simon] is Rock (Petras) and on this Rock Jesus will build his church and the gates of Hell will not prevail over it.”  For this _one_ taking of initiative, taking of a risk, Jesus blesses Simon Peter, St. Peter forever.  Remarkable.

Yet the Bible is full of examples where God blesses who take risks – from Abraham, who at 75 (!) God invites to leave his country and go to a land which he will show him; to Jacob, whose whole life was one of risk taking (in order to survive); to Moses, who on seeing injustice for the first time in his life (at 40) admittedly “lashed out,” suffered grievously for it (had to flee to exile in the desert, but who at 80 (!) God called back to “finish the job;” to Joshua, who was one of the only ones who Moses had sent into the Promised Land to survey it, and was not afraid to advise going to take it (the other spies that Moses had sent there came back with stories of doom.  Joshua along with Caleb, the only other spy to have confidence in God, were the only two of their entire generation that God allowed to enter into the promised land); to David whose instant of bravery in taking on the chellenge of the giant Goliath, God famously rewarded; to finally Solomon who also God blessed when at a young age, Solomon, who could have asked God for anything, asked God for wisdom (so that to this day, we remember Solomon to be wise).  All these are examples of God blessing those who took risks, who were _not_ “afraid.”

Indeed, those who God cursed (Adam and Eve hiding in the Garden after their first sin, the Israelites who initially _were afraid_ of entering into the Promised Land despite Joshua and Caleb’s advisement that despite the challenges they could take it even in their generation) were those who _chose_ to “be afraid.”

Indeed, Jesus repeatedly told his disciples, indeed often greeted his disciples with the admonition “be not afraid.”  So noteworthy of Jesus’ style was this that we have a famous hymn now for the last 30-40 years entitled “Be Not Afraid” and Pope John Paul II (now Blessed Pope John Paul II) wrote an entire book entitled “Be Not Afraid.”

So this Sunday, having heard all that great teaching of Jesus over the past weeks, having recounted again of some Jesus’ more famous miracles and having heard in the these last two weeks of two Professions of Faith made by people in Jesus’ time – that by the Canaanite woman and now St. Peter – we’re asked to “step up”

Who do we say that Jesus is?  And how can we put that faith _bravely_ into action?

Remembering that God does bless us when we do step out of ourselves and take a risk in his name.

Amen.